Understanding Teenage Girls 101

The unlimited tips for understanding women


Kassidy Hemby, Staff Editor

Females: stubborn, independent, emotional, dramatic; anything under the sun, you name it and girls can be it. Every woman is different, they have all experienced different pasts and strive to experience different futures. People’s experiences in general are what make them strong. Understanding women can be hard, and as every man would say, “Women are so difficult”, but luckily for you, I have answered all your prayers, here lies the ultimate guide to women. Boys, take notes.

Be Yourself

Girls pay attention to the little things, they notice how you treat and act around certain people. If you are trying to be someone you are not, women will pick up on it. They have tendencies to hold high expectations.They want to make connections with you and be able to relate to you. If you are trying to impress a woman, don’t overdo it. Confidence is key, believe in yourself, but don’t act cocky. Women are confident creatures, however a red flag may occur when you are overly confident. Being yourself will not only help you, but it will show women that you are comfortable and strong inside and out.

Actions Speak Louder than Words

The way you treat people, including women, is a crucial element. Women are emotional, they have tendencies to overthink situations and outcomes, but at the same time, they can be extremely strong. How you act and or treat a woman can make or break her opinion of you. If you are selfish and stuck up, she will most likely think less of you. The better option is to show acts of kindness and prove to her that she matters. Pay attention to her, treat her as you would someone you admire, regardless if you are friends or more. How you treat people has major emphasis, treat her how you would want to be treated.


What are your morals? Morals matter and should always come first. Everyone has different morals, just remember to stay true to them. If you have a little ‘crush’, don’t forget they have morals too. When you meet someone with different morals than you, take into mind that no one is the same. If morals get in the way, or if they affect the way you treat people, remember and respect others perspectives. Morals matter, they are the base of your belief system, stay true to yours, but also respect others.

Understanding women can be difficult. Every woman is different and everyone has unique perspectives. All women are strong and should not be underestimated. When understanding women, don’t forget to stay true to yourself and your morals.